
Bar Event · Crossdressing · DJ Show · Fetish · Queer · Shibari
BDSM Party “THE PAIN” – DecaBar S
Thu 1 May 2025
04:00 – 13:00 JST
DECABAR · Tokyo
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Bar Event · Crossdressing · DJ Show · Fetish · Queer · Shibari
Thu 1 May 2025
04:00 – 13:00 JST
DECABAR · Tokyo
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Bar Event · Crossdressing · DJ Show · Fetish · Queer · Shibari
Thu 8 May 2025
04:00 – 13:00 JST
DECABAR · Tokyo
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Bar Event · Crossdressing · DJ Show · Fetish · Queer · Shibari
Thu 15 May 2025
04:00 – 13:00 JST
DECABAR · Tokyo
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Bar Event · Crossdressing · DJ Show · Fetish · Queer · Shibari
Thu 22 May 2025
04:00 – 13:00 JST
DECABAR · Tokyo
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Drag Show/Performance · Fetish · Performance Art · Queer · Shibari
Sun 6 Jul 2025
21:30 – Mon 7 Jul 03:00 JST
Mirage · Tokyo
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Concert/Live Music · Cosplay Event · Crossdressing · Dance Party · DJ Show · Queer · Women Only
Sun 15 Nov 2026
01:00 – 06:00 JST
Venue not listed · City not listed
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